Advice for dating a divorce man with kids
“Everyone ends a relationship by grieving the emotional investment.
For some people, that happens before they move out.
One of those men may be like I was, and in these hard earned lessons perhaps something will awaken in him and he will learn to be the man his lady has been waiting for.
If you are reading this and your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, take 100% responsibility for YOUR PART in marriage, regardless of where your spouse is at, and commit to applying these lessons while there is time.
It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad.
SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged.
Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love.
Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.
Learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED.
Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids.